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生孩子影響婚姻質(zhì)量?
Unhappy marriage? Blame the kids, claims eight-year study
[ 2009-04-13 10:03 ]

 

生孩子影響婚姻質(zhì)量?
Don't let the children hear, but parenthood can ruin marital bliss

 

It may not come as a surprise to parents, but having children really does impinge on marital bliss.

Nine in ten couples suffer a downturn in 'marital satisfaction' once the first child is born, according to an eight-year study.

And relationship and stress problems are worse for those who live together before getting married and starting a family.

The findings will ring true for millions of parents who found everything from their finances to their sex lives suddenly changed with a new arrival.

But the researchers insist the findings should not be seen as a reason to remain childless as bringing children into the world can bring a 'whole dimension of family happiness'.

Psychologists at the universities of Denver and Texas examined the marriages of around 220 couples over an eight-year period.

They found 90 per cent suffered what they called a 'decrease in marital satisfaction' after the birth of a child.

Childless couples suffered the same problems - only a little later, explained Denver University psychology professor Scott Stanley.

He said: 'Couples who do not have children also show diminished marital quality over time.

However, having a baby accelerates the deterioration, especially seen during periods of adjustment right after the birth of a child.'

The research, published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, found relationship problems were worse for those who had lived together first - possibly because long-established shared routines are more disrupted by new arrivals.


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也許這對于為人父母者來說并不奇怪,但生孩子的確會影響婚姻幸福。

一項(xiàng)為期八年的調(diào)查顯示,90%的夫妻在第一個(gè)孩子出生后“婚姻滿意度”下降。

對在結(jié)婚成家之前就已經(jīng)同居的人來說,生孩子對兩人關(guān)系的影響及其所帶來的壓力問題更為嚴(yán)重。

這些調(diào)查結(jié)果對于很多為人父母者來說似乎的確如此。他們發(fā)現(xiàn),隨著小生命的降臨,家庭經(jīng)濟(jì)狀況以及兩人的性生活等一切問題突然都發(fā)生了變化。

但研究人員強(qiáng)調(diào),這項(xiàng)調(diào)查結(jié)果不應(yīng)成為不要孩子的理由,因?yàn)楹⒆訒硪环N“全方位的家庭幸?!?。

丹佛大學(xué)和得克薩斯大學(xué)的心理學(xué)家在為期八年的時(shí)間里對大約220對夫妻的婚姻狀況進(jìn)行了調(diào)查。

他們發(fā)現(xiàn),90%的夫妻在有了孩子之后“婚姻滿意度降低”。

丹佛大學(xué)的心理學(xué)教授斯科特?斯坦利解釋稱,沒有孩子的夫妻也會面臨同樣的問題,只不過是早晚的問題。

他說:“時(shí)間久了,沒有孩子的夫妻的婚姻質(zhì)量也會逐漸下降?!?/font>

”但生孩子會加速這一過程,尤其是在孩子出生后不久的調(diào)整階段?!?/font>

這項(xiàng)在《個(gè)性與社會心理學(xué)雜志》上發(fā)表的研究成果表明,對婚前就已同居的人來說,孩子對兩人關(guān)系的影響更為嚴(yán)重,這可能是因?yàn)閮扇碎L期形成的共同的生活規(guī)律被新成員打破了。

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